
Scott (my brother) and Elise welcomed Gray Douglas Gibby into the world on Sunday, March 7th. (One week past his due date.) Scott and Elise will be great parents! They probably don't need this, but as an activity at her baby shower we wrote down advise and put it in a cute book for future reference. I ended up writing three pages! So, I guess if I post it here, you can also learn from my mistakes. (Is that why I had so much advise to give?)
Not in any specific order, here is the list.
*Enjoy the stage they are in. *Take lots of pictures. *Use shampoo with a pump lid, use all the other soap you get as a refill (babies are slippery when wet). *Don't trust the tag size, especially Carter brand. *Binkys are easier to get rid of than a thumb. Pull the plug like a band-aid, all at once. It will be harder for the parent then the child.*If you want them to keep a hat or bow on, start early. *Use a pre-wash, we like Shout. *Talk to other moms, you are not alone (and sometimes it is nice to hear someone else had a worse day than you did). *Have fun (from Tyler). *Presentation counts, kids might eat better when sandwiches have been cut with a cookie cutter, make apples fry size, cut string cheese and carrots into "coins", etc. *Don't leave pens in a child's reach. *Recycle, especially when they get to be school age. We have a special spot for each kid to hang favorite work, when their spot is full, they have to choose something to take down if they want something new up.

*Make everyday fun. *Make a holiday funner than a normal day. *Know the symptoms of Mastitis, don't live with it. *Follow through, for both bad consequences and rewards. *For a tummy ache, rub clockwise. *Don't spank in anger. When upset, clap your hands; you might be surprised how much force you use. *Make stuff (from Andrew, he was talking about daddy making German Pancakes, but it could be crafts (even for boys) and other activities too). *Bath and Body Works sells small hand sanitizers that fit great in a purse or diaper bag and smell lots better that dirty diaper hands. *Every child deserves a mom that will take a shower and put a ribbon in her hair. *Before discipline think "Does this have an eternal consequence?" example: spilling milk-no, telling a lie-yes. *If nursing, (my cousin said, try it for at least eight weeks, don't give up...it is hard.) wear a bracelet that is easy to get on and off, and switch arms that you wear it on, so you know which side to start with during the next feeding. *Patience is a virtue most parents don't have. *Use the free diaper bag from the hospital as a trial run for a few weeks, then you will know what features you like or don't like if you buy a different one. *Adjust the switch in the mother's lounge, so you can hear the talk or lesson. (Yep, that mic the teachers complain about using allows you to hear the classroom.) *Don't be afraid of food coloring. It helps when potty training too, just a drop in the bowl and kids make the color change. *Start saving "pencils" (Tyler means Box Tops and Labels for Education, they both had pictures of pencils, the Campbell's logo just changed). *Baby oil helps get marker and temporary tattoos off skin. *Mr. Clean Magic Eraser works like magic, it can get marker, pen, crayon, and more off walls and furniture. *Check out Signing Time at the library. They make movies that are educational and entertaining. Sign up for Sign of the Week on their website. *Take a time out for yourself, not as a reward. *Laundry (and dishes) are never done. *Don't forget Family Home Evening, family prayer, and family scripture study; make it a habit early. *Don't threaten children with something you won't follow through with. *Go on dates, marriage comes before children.*Something that my aunt said that I really liked was, Each child is different, love them each individually and unconditionally.
So what is your favorite? What advise can you share with me?
P.S. Elise, some of these I didn't write in your book, I just remembered them. Thanks to Laura for reminding me about markers.